Read this article if you are frustrated

Read this article if you are frustrated He recently had a problem with someone of your own, a situation that makes you angry or complaint that you made and then said, I understand your frustration, but you must understand that .. . T It is not fun? Silly humans, they believe that you buy into their BS explanations of why things are as they are, rather than to solve the problem, getting off their butts and recovery or improper setting of the issue.You Why do it? In fact, they think that are engaged in? Theory of conflict resolution? and you know why? Well some moron, some ok to write a book on how to deal with the difficulties of dealing with people, probably started as an electronic book, became a best seller. In this book, it says when you are angry or complains that it is necessary to retu to a rational state that allows you to work through issues with them. The instruction manual is actually decent in certain situations, but men usually are not so smart and start using this for everyone. Here's how it goes, a person is angry, the person B is? LISTEN? and repeat what they said to emotional understanding, IE theory of emotional intelligence. Next the person is required to calm down and listen to the other person B, how do you explain what you can and can not be done because of the way things are.I A person is a fictitious person then B can not convince that there is some red tape, or before dealing with red tape and that is how it is done, because that is how we always do and these are the rules and 'there is nothing we can do about it, and I feel sorry for you Person A (# 334-2A-6783247). The other day I lead a middle class, soccer mom, the former leader said his daughter and could not read a book of children in a Magazine Rack and Starbucks have used this tactic on them. ? Ah, I understand you're frustrated, but we must go faster and my mother said you can not start reading that now, because before we do. The very smart young man, said:? So I still want to read and is not a good reason. The mother said, but these are the rules. The boy said:? What you do, you never said before? In fact, we are so conditioned to buy into Hokum forms, documents, rules and bureaucracy, which allows us all to stop us from doing what we need. Not that we should 't follow all the rules is that rules do not help anyone, and most can not remember the reasons why these rules exist, or who made them? Many people are frustrated about why they can not get the service they are entitled to business, govement or person. Why everyone is so busy copy this pretext tactics. Even entrepreneurs often do so at your own risk. Because if you do not give customers what they want, someone else, so if you are frustrated with too many things there is a reason and I understand completely, but these are the rules? Think about it. "Lance Winslow" - Online Think Tank forum board. If you have innovative ideas and unique perspectives, to think with his lance;